
When we first marry, most of us have a sex life like those fancy race cars (think Lightening McQueen: Vroom, Vroom, Roar!)
But as time goes on, kids come along, pressures and responsibilities increase, and our engines tend to lose their steam. The key to going the distance long term is not in how we start out, but in keeping our engines tuned and in great condition (well oiled and gassed up!)
So here's our current poll question: In Road Race terms, how would you describe your current sex life? Vroom, Vroom!, Steady in High Gear, Middle of the Road, Put-Put, or Stalled. Make sure to vote in the sidebar!












1 Zesters spoke up:
Right now we are vroom. I know it sounds crazy but I have always had a problem with feeling "obligated" to have sex and once I feel obligated I don't want to do something. Once my husband admitted to his past affair I no longer felt bond. I felt free. Knowing that I had the right to walk away and didn't "have" to do any of those things made me want to. This is the best our sex lives have been in eight and half years.
I wish that I had been able to get this mind set a long time ago without the adultery.
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