Creative Lingerie

We'd like to welcome Elizabeth Dempsey to Adding Zest today.

It's that time of the year again. No, not school shopping, not obtaining the latest fall trends, but summer clearance. What does this have to do with adding zest to my marriage you might ask. Well, let me explain.

Variety is always a good thing, but do you ever find that purchasing some nice lingerie can put a big dent in the budget? If you're like me and want to keep things fun and interesting but don't have $100 to spend on an ensemble that no one but your husband will see, here's an idea for a creative way to add some variety to your collection.

I would say that I err on the side of conservative in my clothing choices. Oh course, my sweet husband loves to see me in super tight, super short articles of clothing that I would never feel comfortable being seen in public with. Over the last year I've picked up some not-so conventional items off the clearance rack that I deemed as 'lingerie'. My super-short mini skirt for $5 and my string bikini for $4.50 have become some of my husband's favorite pieces of lingerie. His response to my initial purchase lead me on a hunt to look out for pieces I normally would have never considered.

So next time you're out shopping, swing by that summer clearance rack and pick up some items for his eyes only. Don't be afraid of trying on something you've never considered due to your age or size. Oh, and don't overlook those 5 inch heels and tight, low cut tops either. There is no dress code for the bedroom. All these things send him the same message- I want to be pleasing to your eyes.


Elizabeth Dempsey is a stay at home mom of three children under the age of five. After 8 eight years of trying to figure things out, she has made it her life's mission to have the most amazing marriage possible. In what little spare time she has, she peruses blogs and shops clearance racks.