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Well, she has inspired me. Not true. She has challenged me. The girl downright double-dog dared me, without saying a word.
See, Patty and I have a lot of fun together behind the scenes and I know a little more about Patty's, er, intimate side than she reveals here. I gotta tell you, the woman is crazy.
So I'm trying my hand at coming up with some creative ideas myself. I'm rusty so it's going to take me a bit to get up to speed, but one of these days I might just take the girl ON.
Patty, you are an inspiration. This one is for you!
Intimacy Builder Game
This is a game all about developing intimacy in a fun and hopefully non-threatening way. You will need the following items to play the game, because these are ingredients that build intimacy:
~ A box of sweets (preferably chocolate)
~ A readiness to connect with your spouse
~ Words of affirmation
~ Eye contact
~ Laughter
Here's how the game works:
~ Sit on the bed Indian style, facing each other, with the chocolates in the middle.
~ Take turns saying and finishing this phrase "I like it when you ...."
~ After finishing the statement, the person speaking feeds a sweet to the other.
~ You can fill in the blank any way you wish (here's where you can get creative, and maybe let your guy know what you really want him to do, in and out of the bedroom!!)
~ Continue until you run out of sweets or...well, you know.
~ Clothes are totally optional!
Anybody up for it?! Any ideas to add to it?
Oh and Patty? You'll have to tell me what your husband thinks of this one! Off stage of course :)
4 Zesters spoke up:
I think I may add a stripping phase to the chocolate...sort of poker like. Thanks so much for having this site...it's helping my marriage sooo much!
ROFL, oh so ROFL. I double-dog dared you? When? I would never do something like that! Never! LoL. But you're right about one thing, I am crazy. I think I might even have a certificate for it too, somewhere. =]
Great idea, Heidi! We wouldn't be able to use chocolate, unless I was going to be eating it all. Oh, now there's idea! LoL
Oh, that is brilliant about the stripping thing. Umhum, definitely needs to be added to the rules of the game! Thanks MomE!
Patty, if you can't find your certificate, I'll make you a new one. :)
I'm with Patty on the chocolate, I have to use something else 'cause my hubby don't care for it but I ain't knocking the game.
It's gonna get tried!
How would the stripping be incorporated? Oh wait, never mind, we can do that instead of the chocolate! Ha! I answered my own question...unless of course someone has another idea!
smooches,
Larie
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