This is a good time of year to put any extra face paint you might have around your house to good use. That stuff isn't just face paint, it's body paint and your body is the canvas. It doesn't take much—just face paint, a styrofoam plate to use as a palette and a kid's paint brush. Or, if you don't have those handy, just go straight for the finger painting. No skill is necessary and the only one to see it will be your husband, so let the creativity flow and paint a surprise for your man.Of course, the other option, which is actually better *grin*, is to provide the supplies and let your husband do the painting on you. You might be surprised by what he paints. It also might give you other ideas to try to add some zest to your love life!
A word of recommendation...
**Relax!! Don't get in a dither over where he wants to paint and what he wants to paint. Go with it and be prepared to blush and laugh. Stiffening up will just shut down the fun and that's not what we're after.
**Drop cloths. If you're worried about your sheets or your carpet, spread out an old sheet. Want to be extra cautious? Cut open a garbage bag and put it under the old sheet. If you're worried about a mess you won't be able to really relax and have fun, which is one of your goals. **Keep tissues handy.
**Let the first color dry before applying a second. If you don't, they'll mix, which may or may not matter to either one of you, but if it matters, let the first color dry. Also, rather than applying one thick layer of paint, which may crack, apply a thin layer, let it dry, then apply another—again, if it matters. You could take that opportunity to do a little painting of your own, on your husband.
Here's a heads up...
Craft, acrylic and tempera paints are not specifically made for skin and can cause serious allergic reactions to the skin including burning, redness and irritation. Some craft paints could also stain skin, so you really want to stick with face paint. It's nontoxic,easy to use, dries quickly and washes off easily with soap and water. Above all, relax and have fun with your husband.
Don't forget we still have the Alphabet Challenge going on and you can enter up to THREE times--just make sure to spread your comments over three days. There's still time and I'm loving the words you girls are coming up with!
















4 Zesters spoke up:
What I want to know, Patty, is if you try your tips before passing them along (I really wanted to ask what your husband painted, but I figured that is too nosy)!
If you are brave enough to do it, then I guess I can be too :)
ROFL Heidi! You're too funny!
Um. Hmmmmm. LoL Because this blog is not (so NOT) about our own love lives (yup, that means it's not about YOUR love life either, girl! LoL) and what goes on behind our bedroom doors, I'm not gonna answer that directly! =] Some ideas do come from experience and some come from 'suggestions' I've gathered from here-there-and-yonder.
Just like the rest of you, this whole area of my life is a journey that I'm finding my way on--often in a bumbling, stumbling kind of way. I have sooooo much to learn when it comes to marriage and my husband. SO much! That's why when I felt God leading me to blog about physical intimacy within a marriage I thought for sure He had the wrong person. But it's not about me--it's about God and the work HE can do in a marriage, in a wife.
You're right, Heidi, some of the things DO take a little bravery, and some of the ideas are not for everyone!! But I'd say, Buck up! Relax and go for it! =] =]
Remember, the best things in life are often not the easy things!!
It's helpful that you added the "Don't worry" section and gave some pointers because I know one thing that I could do to ruin the moment is to be worried about making messes and blah blah blah.
Very good good applicable post!
smooches,
Larie
Well...face paints is a new idea to me, but I can tell you from experience (and yes I will admit to it) gel pens are fun too. Some gel pens, though, don't flow on skin very well...have to test them out...but it is a fun way to love tattoo each other.
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