Organ Enlargement

Wow your partner! Never be ashamed in the bedroom again! Fast, easy, guaranteed results!

How did I do at sounding like a spam email?

There isn't a day goes by that I don't get at least a few of these. I want to send a blanket response saying something like, "You've got to actually have one of those organs to grow it and I don't, so stop spamming me!" But I don't 'cause then I'll confirm my email address and Lord knows I don't need even more spam.

We all know the truth anyway: that the most important sex organ we have is our brain.

That is why men are told "sex starts in the kitchen." Now my man is great about starting kitchen fires (and bathing the baby fires and taking out the trash fires and helping with cleanup fires)...but what about us starting our own fires? We women can, in fact, do some things to enhance our most important sex organ. Here's how it works.

First, the basics. Researchers say that brain chemistry is actually responsible for the feel good of sex. The two main chemicals (there are more, but these are the prominent ones) involved in sexual satisfaction are dopamine and oxytocin.

Dopamine is the feel good chemical. This produces the rush at climax. Dopamine is triggered by any exciting behavior, not just sexual climax and can cause addiction.

The second chemical is oxytocin. Oxytocin promotes bonding. Any mom who has breastfed probably knows that oxytocin is released during this skin to skin contact, promoting bonding with her baby.

Interestingly enough, oxytocin is also released when engaging in loving touch with a man. Research shows that it is responsible for producing feelings of trust in addition to building attachment. Oxytocin is why sex starts in the kitchen- we want to feel connected with and trust the person we have sex with.

We can therefore engage in oxytocin-producing activities! The good news is that there are tons of non-sexual things that release oxytocin in our brain. These build attachment and trust when done with our mate and prepare us for sexual intercourse. Here are a few to help you get started:

~~Hugging (sustain for 20 seconds)
~~Providing a service or treat without being asked
~~Listening intently
~~Skin-to-skin contact
~~Loving eye contact (sustained)
~~Smiling at each other
~~Kissing with the lips and tongue
~~Overlooking an error
~~Giving unsolicited approval, smiles, or compliment
~~stroking with intent to comfort
~~Massage, especially of the feet, shoulders, and head
~~Preparing your mate something to eat


Research suggests that as little as one minute each day of oxytocin producing behavior is enough to change your brain make-up! The great thing about oxytocin is that the more of it you produce, the more receptive key nerve cells become, meaning that daily doses make the pathway to intimacy, trust, and attachment easier and easier.

So, if you want to improve your bedroom bliss, start working a couple of these activities into your day. Some suggested times would be upon rising, when leaving for work, when returning home, and when going to bed.

Now that is one "enlargement" pill I can swallow.


For more information on how our brains are involved in sexual activity, you may want to check out the book "Hooked" by Christian doctors Joe McIlhaney and Freda McKissic Bush.

Repost from 3/29/10.